I'm using the Story-Time Tuesday format for this and each week I will be doing a giveaway for "A Different Kind of Medical Care" but Dr. Tina Marcantel.
You can read about this book by clicking here.
Giveaway Information: Enter to win a copy on this post today or you can purchase at that link. 10% discount code is 'healthy1'.
I will have Mr. Jenny select a random number from all the comments on this post. Feel free to enter any time before Monday.
Winner will be announced next Tuesday along with the continuing story. Autographed book will be mailed out on Wednesday!
The winner of last weeks book is:
LeadingMamasaid...
PART TWO - IF GOOD HEALTH WAS EASY, EVERYBODY WOULD HAVE IT!
Understand that trudging ahead was really my only option.
With three small children, very tight finances and no
alternative health options…there was no other choice.
So trudge I did.
Months strung together and I gained a precarious acceptance
that exhaustion, anxiety and stress were the parameters of my life.
I had always had an optimistic nature and every morning I
would awake assuming the day would be good.
I rarely hung my head down in self-pity and sorrow. Emotionally I never felt like my physical
feelings were valid. The way my body
felt did NOT match the way my mind felt.
There was little time to dwell on that, though, because life
was too busy back then to take much time with my health puzzle.
I enjoyed my time with my children and friends, had a
creative small business, and had energy enough to put dinner on the table, keep
up (more or less) with the laundry and to keep my house (fairly) clean.
The ‘normal’ in my life was that some days were not good
days. Exhaustion, joint pain, depression
and anxiety came and went with no discernible schedule. And
because I was unwilling to live my life with the restrictions those negative
things imposed, I did my best to ignore them.
Early in 1990 I had a partial hysterectomy due to chronic
bleeding. I discussed my other symptoms with both my family
doctor and the surgeon. They both
suggested that perhaps I was suffering from depression…perhaps if I were to
lose some weight I might feel better…perhaps there were some new
anti-depression medications that might help. I declined the offers.
I am not opposed to pharmaceutical help. It was just never an option for me because
of my sensitivity and adverse reaction to many medications. Honestly, I would have taken any prescription
that made me feel better. They just
didn’t work for me.
And I was certainly never OPPOSED to losing weight, either,
but I was always one of those women who could starve herself and not lose a
pound. I tried a lot of things in those
years including exercise, counting every calorie that went into my mouth, and Overeaters
Anonymous. I was very active and did
not sit around the house all day eating bonbons. Really.
It always upset me, because up until my third pregnancy I had a
wonderful metabolism and sometimes actually struggled to gain weight. Darn.
That was a great time!
Around the time of the surgery, emotional and financial stress
increased at home. Sometimes the tension
was almost unbearable. Post-surgical recovery was difficult with
complication after complication. The
anxiety increased along with random, odd pains in my joints and bones. Oddly, I gained weight in the hospital during
my surgical stay.
No matter how bad things got, though, I muscled on.
Not because I was brave or especially tough.
I muscled on, because I think this is something we do as
women.
When our children are young, our lives are about taking care
of our families. Our emotional and
physical needs are low on the list of care and priorities. I can
honestly tell you that I never once made a ‘to do’ list that included meditation
or a nap.
I don’t know if those things would have made a difference in
the long run.
What I do know is that my health seemed to deteriorate at
about the same speed as my marriage.
My emotions could accelerate from calm to rage in about 1.2
seconds. I felt awful. Almost all the time. Headaches, terrible pain in my side, joint
aches, trouble swallowing, bone and ear pain.
A doctor put me on thyroid medicine. It made me feel a little better. I started losing weight. Some of the pain went away.
But I truly could not understand how I could feel so
terrible. Yes, I recognized how bad my
finances and marriage had become…but still…the way my body felt did NOT match
the way my mind felt.
...to be continued next Tuesday.Part one - linked here.
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